HOW TO ATTRACT THE PERSON YOU LOVE

Love is energy that either attracts us to itself or pushes us away. To get drawn to love you must respond to its advances. People sometimes say “I was swept off my feet.” This means you were just standing there doing nothing and when it came you let yourself free, responding and giving in to its strengths and you allowed it engulf you. This strong energy of love, as abstract as it is, it could take the form of a person or can be seen in a person. That is why so often you could feel drawn particularly to someone and not to another person. This is because you are responding and being drawn to that energy in the person in your own way and also the person is being drawn to yours. This is when you say “we are in love.” Also some people could feel this energy growing within them but the bad thing about theirs is, it grows and remains there. It does not respond to another and none responds to it. With time, you begin to fight against this energy unconsciously and this is when frustration disappointment and hate pour in. These other three energies take root and destroy the one that was growing there before. You become frustrated at your situation, disappointed at your self and then you begin to hate your activities or the people around you or even yourself. It is at this point you say, “Oh, I can’t find someone to love me.” Well here is the good news, you can actually avoid such circumstances in your life or even get out of it, if you are already in it. You can find someone to love. You can love and beloved in return and if you have found someone you can actually attract that person to yourself. So how do you attract the person you love or how do you find the right person to love? How do you let the love in you respond and how do you let it respond to the right attraction? Here are six simple steps you should follow to help you.

Step 1: Train you mind: This involves the process of believing that you can and will be loved. You have to put your ego aside and start thinking of all the p[possible ways you would like to be loved. In doing this, you have to pay strong attention, to the signs along the road and open your eyes to opportunity to be loved because they will surely begin to show themselves.

Step 2: Overcome fear: In a case like this, the most common fears are, fear of the unknown, fear of rejection, fear of disapproval and fear of failure. Well the truth you have to deal with all these fears if you truly want success. You cannot deny them or pretend it isn’t there. Worse still you cannot push them aside or leave them in your subconscious. You have to confront them and banish them forever. One good way o confronting your fears is to recognize that without action you will never escape mediocrity. You should also know that these fears are feeling you have accepted and nurtured overtime and it’s time to uproot them by also changing your feelings. Ask yourself, “What could I loose if I begin to act?” Chase you fears away and consciously decide to take a chance in life.

Step 3: Step out: After training you mind and overcoming your fears, then you need to step out. To move to a higher level or discover greater things or become more appreciated, you need to step out of your circle or current activity that surrounds you. Engage yourself in better things and with new and better people. The point it to achieve your goals, you may need to rise in levels and participate with people on a new playing field. Remember, if you walk the same path each day and do the same things each time you will always get the same results. Einstein once said, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.” So step out.

Step 4: Power of belief or faith: Once you begin to step out you need to have faith and belief in yourself and about your self. Always put a smile on your face and always have a smile within. Once you begin to have faith, you raise yourself to another level unconsciously. Everything around you begins to respond to you, people will begin to notice you. Then create in your mind a vivid picture on the one love you will like to meet and hold this picture strongly in your mind.

Step 5: Power of focus: Once you’ve created in your mind this picture and keep holding it strongly, your mind will seek to create it in reality for you. This is because whatever you give your focus and attention to with faith you get it and nature responds by giving it to you. As long as you also believe it.

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HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE DATING THE RIGHT PERSON...

During one of the numerous seminars I gave on singles, a woman asked an unusual question. “How do I know I am in the right relationship and with the right person?” These same questions have been asked by so various people around the world. In fact it happens to be a vital question for any individual in a relationship. Now here’s the answer. Every relationship follows a cycle. It begins with falling in love and this follows with the other anxieties surrounding falling in love. Now this first part is very easy because it was a complete natural experience. Little or no work was required, it was a spontaneous experience that is why it is referred falling in love because it is easy and it is a passive and spontaneous experience.

The second part comes a few years into the relationship. The euphoria of love fades, the anxiety dies down, the spark disappears, the exciting that engulfs you is no longer there, the phone calls slowly becomes scarce or a bother, (if the come at all) and your partner’s idiosyncrasies drive you nuts. At this stage you begin to ask yourself questions like, is this the right person for me? Your mind becomes clouded, you long for yesteryears, you long to see in your partner what you once saw and hope to feel again what you once felt. As such questions linger through your mind, you begin to reflect on the euphoria of love you once had and in hope of reigniting such feeling you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. Such symptoms at this stage vary with relationships and it is at this stage that relationships breakdown. Partners blame each other for the present situation and their unhappiness and in a bid to recover or hold up themselves, they look outside for fulfillment and embrace other attractions. These attractions maybe another affair, alcohol, a friendship, a hobby, excessive TV or too much work. They try their best to get themselves engrossed ion any of these to make up for their loss and feeling and to help them overcome the dilemma.

Now funny as it may seem the answer to this problem does not lie outside of it but within it. The key to a successful relationship is not finding the right person but learning to love the one you have found. You should know that you cannot find lasting love. You have to make it day and night, day in and day out. It takes time, effort, energy and hard work. Above all it requires wisdom. A sustaining love is not a passive or spontaneous experience like falling in love. The success of your relationship lies within you, you have to know what to do to make it work and keep it alive. You should know that love is not a mystery. There are things you can do to make your love keep growing and also make your relationship a success. There are laws and powers binding the universe and everything in it. There are physical laws and spiritual powers. So also there are laws for relationships. As just taking in the right diet and doing the right exercise makes you stronger, also doing the right things and acquiring certain habits in your relationship will make it stronger. You can make love continuous. If you know and diligently apply these laws and use these powers the results are predictable. You will find out that love is indeed a decision and not just a feeling.

Two great powers you can apply in your relationship are the powers of belief or faith and the powers of focus. This is so because in applying the power of belief or faith your subconscious mind only creates your reality based on your faith or belief. It doesn’t care if your faith or belief about the person is good, bad, ugly or beautiful. It only acts on instructions which come form your thoughts. Your thought send vibrations that make you focus and following the laws of attraction you consequently attract to yourself whatever you give your focus, attention or energy to. So try to create a firm positive belief and faith about your relationship and let the thought about your relationships be very positive and focus on it. Changes are sure to happen.

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